{"id":14679,"date":"2013-07-13T00:01:30","date_gmt":"2013-07-13T07:01:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/?p=14679"},"modified":"2013-07-13T00:01:30","modified_gmt":"2013-07-13T07:01:30","slug":"a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter\/","title":{"rendered":"A Forgotten Gift From My Teenaged Daughter &#8212; No Good After December 31"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_14681\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14681\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2013\/07\/13\/a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter\/\" rel=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2013\/07\/13\/a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter\/\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-14681 size-large\" title=\"teenagers-job-gift-coupon\" src=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/christinas-gift-coupons-1996-2-580x343-500x296.jpg\" alt=\"a forgotten gift from my teenaged daughter. Photo by BF Newhall.\" width=\"500\" height=\"296\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-14681\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A forgotten gift from my teenaged daughter. Christina was 13 when she gave me this coupon for my birthday. It would be &#8220;no good&#8221; if I didn&#8217;t redeem it soon, which I didn&#8217;t.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><em>By Barbara Falconer Newhall<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it pays to clean out the drawers in your office. Look what a recent rampage through my stationery drawers turned up: Two coupons from my then 13-year-old <!--more-->daughter Christina promising to do chores around the house &#8212; including yard work, for heaven&#8217;s sake.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_14685\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-14685\" style=\"width: 173px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2013\/07\/13\/a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter\/\" rel=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2013\/07\/13\/a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"  wp-image-14685\" title=\"christina-age-13\" src=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/christina-jon-1996-4-173x300.jpg\" alt=\"a forgotten gift from my teenaged daughter. Photo by BF Newhall\" width=\"173\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-14685\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Christina &#8212; barely 13. <em>Photos by BF Newhall<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I&#8217;m pretty sure they were not Christmas gifts. Christina was a good kid, even as a teenager. She wouldn&#8217;t have presented me with coupons timed to expire in a couple of days. I probably got these for my birthday back in September, 1996.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, I didn&#8217;t have the heart to turn in these adorable coupons and get the promised work &#8212; sans complaints &#8212; out of Christina.<\/p>\n<p>I saved them. Which is what I&#8217;m going to keep on doing. Back into the tidied-up stationery drawer this forgotten gift from my teenaged daughter went &#8212; to be smiled upon the next time I finally get around to organizing my stuff.<\/p>\n<p><em>Read more about Christina at <a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2010\/03\/27\/a-case-of-the-human-condition-four-year-old-girls-the-last-bastion-of-pretty\/\">&#8220;Four-Year-Old Girls &#8212; The Last Bastion of Pretty&#8221;<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2010\/03\/06\/a-case-of-the-human-condition-how-do-i-mother-my-twenty-somethings-the-same-way-i-mothered-my-ten-year-olds-with-overkill\/\">&#8220;How to Overmother a Twenty-Something.&#8221;<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2013\/07\/13\/a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter\/\" rel=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2013\/07\/13\/a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-14691\" title=\"a-child's-promise \" src=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/christinas-gift-coupons-1996-500x296.jpg\" alt=\"A three-by-five card on which a 12-year-old promises to yard work as a gift to her mother. Photo by BF Newhall\" width=\"500\" height=\"296\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2013\/07\/13\/a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter\/\" rel=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2013\/07\/13\/a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-14691\" title=\"a-child's-promise \" src=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/christinas-gift-coupons-1996-500x296.jpg\" alt=\"A three-by-five card on which a 12-year-old promises to yard work as a gift to her mother. Photo by BF Newhall\" width=\"500\" height=\"296\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Look what reorganizing my stationery drawers turned up: Coupons from my then 13-year-old daughter Christina promising to do chores around the house &#8212; including yard work, for heaven&#8217;s sake. <a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2013\/07\/13\/a-forgotten-gift-from-my-long-ago-teenaged-daughter\/\">Read more.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":14681,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30],"tags":[1030,146,34,1031,1032,1033,55,1034,82,1035],"class_list":["post-14679","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-my-changing-family","tag-birthdays","tag-christina","tag-dont-miss","tag-household-chores","tag-housework","tag-kids-giving-gifts","tag-family-stories","tag-my-grown-up-kids","tag-on-the-funny-side","tag-teenagers"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14679","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14679"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14679\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14679"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14679"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14679"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}