{"id":6305,"date":"2012-01-01T16:07:10","date_gmt":"2012-01-01T23:07:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/?p=6305"},"modified":"2012-01-01T16:07:10","modified_gmt":"2012-01-01T23:07:10","slug":"a-case-of-the-human-condition-fewer-marriages-but-more-facebook-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/a-case-of-the-human-condition-fewer-marriages-but-more-facebook-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"A Case of the Human Condition: Fewer Marriages &#8212; but More Facebook Relationships?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Barbara Falconer Newhall<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Apparently, fewer\u00a0Americans are getting married these days. (Check out the\u00a0PBS Newshour story.)<\/p>\n<p>But lots and lots of people are doing the next best thing: making a public declaration of being in a relationship &#8212; on Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>Neither of my twenty\/thirty-something kids is married. But both are telling the world they&#8217;re in a relationship &#8230;\u00a0<em>and<\/em> they&#8217;re naming names.<\/p>\n<p>The computers over at Facebook keep you honest, I notice. You can&#8217;t say you&#8217;re in a relationship with somebody unless they agree to it.<\/p>\n<p><em>Read more about getting committed at <a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2009\/05\/15\/a-case-of-the-human-condition-the-day-she-popped-the-question\/\">&#8220;The Day She Popped the Question&#8221;<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2009\/08\/21\/a-case-of-the-human-condition-why-he-didnt-call-me-back\/\">&#8220;Why He Never Called Me Back.&#8221; <\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6307\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6307\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/darger-foto-rna-iphone-9-17-2011.jpg\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6307\" title=\"darger-polygamy-family\" src=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/darger-foto-rna-iphone-9-17-2011-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6307\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">On the other hand, some folks are so keen on marriage, they&#8217;ll marry a bunch of people all at once: The Darger family of Utah has three wives. Photo by BF Newhall<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fewer people are getting married these days, but plenty are declaring their love and loyalty publicly &#8212; on Facebook.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[675,676,677,678,457],"class_list":["post-6305","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-a-case-of-the-human-condition","tag-darger-polygamous-family","tag-facebook","tag-facebook-relationships","tag-fewer-marriages","tag-kids-grown-up"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6305","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6305"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6305\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6305"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6305"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6305"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}