{"id":6601,"date":"2012-03-05T15:36:36","date_gmt":"2012-03-05T23:36:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/?p=6601"},"modified":"2012-03-05T15:36:36","modified_gmt":"2012-03-05T23:36:36","slug":"married-35-years-a-case-of-the-human-condition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/married-35-years-a-case-of-the-human-condition\/","title":{"rendered":"A (Lengthy) Case of the Human Condition: Married 35 Years"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mceTemp\">\n<figure id=\"attachment_9274\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9274\" style=\"width: 522px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2012\/03\/05\/married-35-years-a-case-of-the-human-condition\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-9274\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-9274\" title=\"jon-&amp;-Barbara-newhall-photo-by-Christina-Newhall\" src=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/jon-Barbara-newhall-2012-02-580x435.jpg\" alt=\"Married. Jon and Barbara Newhall at Getty Museum tram, 2012. Photo by Christina Newhall\" width=\"522\" height=\"392\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9274\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Jon and I in LA in February getting warmed up for the big three-five. We&#8217;re waiting for the Getty Museum tram. Photo by Christina Newhall<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><em>By Barbara Falconer Newhall<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Hey, Everybody!<\/p>\n<p>Jon Newhall and I have been married for 35 years now. Two kids, one house and lots of rewarding jobs later, we seem to be in it for the long haul.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>We got married late. We skipped our first marriages and went straight for the second. A strategy I recommend.<\/p>\n<p><em>For more about how we wound up getting married, see &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2009\/05\/15\/a-case-of-the-human-condition-the-day-she-popped-the-question\/\">The Day She Popped the Question<\/a>.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1289\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1289\" style=\"width: 282px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2009\/05\/15\/a-case-of-the-human-condition-the-day-she-popped-the-question\/barb-jon-pool-piru-ca-1975\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1289\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1289\" title=\"barbara-falconer-jon-newhall-1975\" src=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/barb-jon-pool-piru-ca-1975.jpg\" alt=\"Barbara Falconer and Jon Newhall in pool, 1975. Photo by Ruth Newhall\" width=\"282\" height=\"212\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1289\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Jon and I &#8211; still single in 1975. Photo by Ruth Newhall &#8212; or maybe Scott.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_9283\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9283\" style=\"width: 180px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2012\/03\/05\/married-35-years-a-case-of-the-human-condition\/2009-10-fam-foto-santorini-vertical-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-9283\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-9283\" title=\"Barbara-Falconer-Newhall-family-2009\" src=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/2009-10-fam-foto-santorini-vertical.jpg\" alt=\"Four Newhalls on a sunny day. Photo by BF Newhall\" width=\"180\" height=\"240\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9283\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Peter, Christina, Barbara, Jon Newhall, 2009. Barbara Newhall photo<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2012\/03\/05\/married-35-years-a-case-of-the-human-condition\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-9274 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/jon-Barbara-newhall-2012-02-580x435-500x375.jpg\" alt=\"Married -- Jon and Barbara Newhall at Getty Museum tram, 2012. Photo by Christina Newhall\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Jon Newhall and I have been married for 35 years today. Two kids, one house and lots of rewarding jobs later, we seem to be in it for the long haul. <a href=\"http:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2012\/03\/05\/married-35-years-a-case-of-the-human-condition\/\">Read more.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9274,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,30],"tags":[34,29,689,690,55],"class_list":["post-6601","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-a-case-of-the-human-condition","category-my-changing-family","tag-dont-miss","tag-jon","tag-marriage","tag-married-35-years","tag-family-stories"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6601","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6601"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6601\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9274"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6601"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6601"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6601"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}