{"id":34115,"date":"2021-08-07T00:01:10","date_gmt":"2021-08-07T07:01:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/?p=34115"},"modified":"2026-06-06T12:34:30","modified_gmt":"2026-06-06T12:34:30","slug":"garden-remodel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/garden-remodel\/","title":{"rendered":"Yay! Our Garden Remodel Is Done. Come Take a Walk"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_34122\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-34122\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2021\/08\/07\/garden-remodel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"https:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2021\/08\/07\/garden-remodel\/ noopener\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-34122 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/IMG_8092-2.webp\" alt=\"garden remodel with atlas-brick-stairs\" width=\"1200\" height=\"674\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-34122\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A staircase using our old, historic <a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2020\/07\/15\/antique-bricks\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Atlas brick pavers<\/a> graces our garden remodel. Brick dust is still all over the place in this photo. <em>Photo by Barbara Newhall<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h5><strong>A Garden Remodel Ready for Planting<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Come take a walk. Our garden remodel is done at last.<\/p>\n<p>Well, almost done. The stairways still need railings. And that bare dirt needs plants, lots of them.<\/p>\n<p>(I&#8217;m thinking drought tolerant ceanothus, manzanita and salvia for the back yard. And in the side garden &#8212; between two deer fences &#8212; roses, creeping fig, dahlias and kitchen herbs.)<\/p>\n<p>But the hard work is finally done. The hardscaping is firmly in place.<\/p>\n<p>A brick staircase winds its way down into our back yard. And thoroughly up-to-code concrete stairs give safe access to the side yard.<\/p>\n<p>A lovely redwood deck right outside my office door invites lounging in the sun &#8212; and maybe working.<\/p>\n<p>All our back and side yard need now is plants &#8212; and visitors.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>Whose Garden Is This?<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>OK, I know. It&#8217;s not <em>our<\/em> garden. It&#8217;s not <em>our<\/em> backyard.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no us or we anymore. <a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2021\/06\/26\/widowed-2020-was-a-very-good-year\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Jon&#8217;s gone.<\/a> It&#8217;s just me.<\/p>\n<p>My, me, mine &#8212; those words feel so grabby. So possessive. So isolating.\u00a0I&#8217;m more comfortable with we. I put a lot of work into this garden remodel. Lots of time and thought and heart.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t do it for myself. I did it for &#8212; an us.<\/p>\n<p>Jon&#8217;s not here to be the us with me any more. So I&#8217;m counting on friends, acquaintances and readers to fill in some of that empty spot.<\/p>\n<p>So come take a walk!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe title=\"Our Garden Remodel Is Done. Come Take a Walk\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/A92VpkT-JT8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><em>More botanical tales at <a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2017\/01\/26\/autumn-in-the-garden\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;Autumn in the Garden, When Sensible Plants Pack It in for the Winter.&#8221;<\/a>\u00a0 Also, <a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2013\/05\/23\/at-the-de-young-i-cant-take-my-eyes-off-those-flowers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;The Downside of Things Beautiful &#8212; From the Mighty Rose to the Humble Daisy.&#8221;<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2021\/08\/07\/garden-remodel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"https:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2021\/08\/07\/garden-remodel\/ noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-34122 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/IMG_8092-2.jpg\" alt=\"garden remodel with atlas-brick-stairs\" width=\"1200\" height=\"674\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Our garden remodel is done at last. Three plus flights of stairs take you from the canyon below our house to the street above. Come climb the stairs with me. <a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2021\/08\/07\/garden-remodel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read more.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":49473,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[2286,34,472,1188,29,2182,2419],"class_list":["post-34115","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-a-case-of-the-human-condition","tag-bricks","tag-dont-miss","tag-garden","tag-house","tag-jon","tag-remodel","tag-widowed"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34115","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34115"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34115\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":49474,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34115\/revisions\/49474"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/49473"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34115"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34115"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34115"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}