{"id":34171,"date":"2021-08-21T00:01:21","date_gmt":"2021-08-21T07:01:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/?p=34171"},"modified":"2026-06-06T12:31:53","modified_gmt":"2026-06-06T12:31:53","slug":"im-turning-80","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/im-turning-80\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m Turning 80 Any Minute. Would You Like to Give Me a Birthday Present?"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_34180\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-34180\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2021\/08\/21\/im-turning-80\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"https:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2021\/08\/21\/im-turning-80\/ noopener\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-34180 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/arctostaphylos-Point-Reyes-resized.webp\" alt=\"I'm turning 80 and hoping for manzanita-arctostaphylos-Point-Reyes \" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-34180\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The Arctostaphylos &#8220;Point Reyes&#8221; manzanita <a href=\"https:\/\/www.laspilitas.com\/nature-of-california\/plants\/713--arctostaphylos-uva-ursi-point-reyes-manzanita\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">is a real beauty<\/a>: shapely leaves, reddish stems, and pink flowers in winter and spring. It&#8217;s named for one of my favorite places in the world, Point Reyes. It grows low and wide, so it will look great from the deck above our backyard.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>It&#8217;s happening. And there&#8217;s nothing I can do to stop it. I&#8217;m turning 80 next month, and I will be what I never thought possible &#8212; an octogenarian.<\/p>\n<p>Until I wrote that last sentence, I didn&#8217;t even know how to spell octogenarian.<\/p>\n<p>I did a web search. I got the spelling down. I&#8217;m ready to throw that word around for the next ten years.<\/p>\n<p>If all goes well.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>I&#8217;m Turning 80<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Birthday No. 80 is a big deal. It announces the last of the major life stages &#8212; childhood, youth, middle age, and now old age. The Big Eighty calls for celebration.<\/p>\n<p>Which is why I&#8217;m asking for presents.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve sent a request to the grandchildren, ages 2, 5 and 16, for refrigerator-worthy art work.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve asked the grown-up kids for something alive and growing &#8212; plants! Deer-resistant, fire-resistant, drought-resistant, preferably California native, plants for <a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2021\/08\/07\/garden-remodel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the new backyard<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>A Birthday Present<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>That done, I&#8217;m asking you, my faithful, long-time readers, for a gift as well.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s this: Invite your friends to pay a visit to this website.\u00a0 Give them this link: <a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ask them to sample the stories I&#8217;ve written over the years:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/tag\/on-the-funny-side\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Push My Funny Button<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/category\/my-rocky-spiritual-journey\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">My Rocky Spiritual Journey<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/category\/my-changing-family\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">My Ever-Changing Family<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/category\/a-case-of-the-human-condition\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A Case of the Human Condition<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Encourage them to sign up for my weekly email updates.<\/p>\n<p>This would be a wonderful gift for me. Like most writers, I find it hard to toot my own horn. Writers write. Self-promotion does not come naturally to most of us. So up until now I have hesitated to ask my readers to send my writing out into the bigger world.<\/p>\n<p>But I&#8217;m turning 80 now. Time is running out. And I&#8217;m hard at work on second book, which I hope will get the readership it deserves &#8212; before I come up against another birthday with a zero at the end of it.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for whatever you feel comfortable doing.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, thank you for being there. It means a lot.<\/p>\n<p><em>I was middle-aged once. Read about that at &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2009\/06\/12\/a-case-of-the-human-condition-early-late-youth-gives-way-to-middle-middle-age\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Early Late Youth Gives Way to Middle Middle Age.&#8221;<\/a>\u00a0 Read about teenagers at <a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2015\/05\/02\/telephoning-those-teenage-babysitters-rejected-again\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;Telephoning Those Teenaged Babysitters &#8212; Rejected Again.&#8221;<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_34184\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-34184\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2021\/08\/21\/im-turning-80\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"https:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2021\/08\/21\/im-turning-80\/ noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-34184 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/salvian-farinacea-Sallyfun-Deep-Ocean-resized.webp\" alt=\"im turning 80 and hoping for beautiful salvia farinacea sallyfun deep ocean\" width=\"1200\" height=\"674\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-34184\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Salvia farinacea Sallyfun Deep Ocean. I&#8217;m not sure this is a California native, but if it&#8217;s deer-, fire- and drought-resistant, I&#8217;m all for it. <a href=\"https:\/\/garden.org\/plants\/view\/665273\/Mealycup-Sage-Salvia-farinacea-Sallyfun-Deep-Ocean\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">It&#8217;s pretty<\/a>, and anything pretty helps a lot right now. <em>Photos by Barbara Newhall\u00a0<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2021\/08\/21\/im-turning-80\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"https:\/\/barbarafalconernewhall.com\/2021\/08\/21\/im-turning-80\/ noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-34180 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/arctostaphylos-Point-Reyes-resized.jpg\" alt=\"I'm turn 80 and hoping for manzanita-arctostaphylos-Point-Reyes\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m turning 80 and I&#8217;m hoping for gifts: grandkids art for the fridge, plants for the new backyard. And a gift only my readers can give. <a href=\"http:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/2021\/08\/21\/im-turning-80\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read more.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":49467,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[103,2500,472,2501,2502,2503,2504],"class_list":["post-34171","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-a-case-of-the-human-condition","tag-aging","tag-arctophylus","tag-garden","tag-im-turning-80","tag-manzanita","tag-salvia-sallyfun","tag-turning-80"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34171","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34171"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34171\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":49469,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34171\/revisions\/49469"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/49467"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34171"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34171"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/server.stagingweb3.net\/barbarafalconernewhall\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34171"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}