For three-plus years, I’ve been writing blog posts about being widowed. Do I have the makings of a memoir in essays?  Read more.

Let Me Tell You About My Daisies — And My Ankles

let me tell you about my daisies

Let me tell you about my daisies. Fresh and perky last week, they had faded and shriveled when I wasn’t looking.  Read more.

Is My Writing Too Nice?

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I sometimes wonder when I sit down to write — am I too much of an optimist? Am I too hopeful? Too trusting? Is my writing too nice?  Read more.

For the Kids: An Obstacle Course — Or a Fairy Circle?

FAIRY CIRCLE terraced-backyard-stairway

I tugged and dragged and rolled the old logs onto the terrace and made them into an obstacle course. Or was it a fairy circle?  Read more.

Widowed: Jon’s Memorial Tree Is Thriving — Both of Them

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The memorial tree planted in my husband’s honor is thriving — both of them. Madrones are fussy, so we planted two to be on the safe side.  Read more.

Tending a Friendship — I’m on Her Calendar and She’s on Mine

The back of a hiker's boots, on the trail. Photo by Barbara Newhall

tending a friendship on the trail. Photo by Barbara Newhall

Tending a long and deep friendship — we’ve done it by setting a hiking date once a month, without fail, so that I’m on her calendar and she’s on mine.  Read more.